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Honouring the Unsung Heroes in Our Lives

Writer's picture: Rachel JonesRachel Jones

Father's Day is a special occasion that allows us to express gratitude and celebrate the incredible role that fathers play in our lives. It's a day dedicated to honouring the unsung heroes who provide love, guidance, and support.




In this blog post, we'll delve into ideas of how to include these heroes in your big day:


1. Walk Down the Aisle Together


One of the most traditional and heartfelt ways to include your dad in your wedding it by having him walk you down the aisle. This time-honoured tradition symbolizes his support and blessing as he accompanies you on the momentous journey towards your future spouse. Share this poignant moment with your father and create a memory that will forever hold a special place in both your hearts.


2. Father-Daughter Dance


The father-daughter dance is a cherished wedding tradition that allows you to share an intimate and emotional moment with your dad. Choose a song that holds significance for both of you, be it a childhood favourite, a song that captures your relationship, or a sentimental melody. Take this opportunity to sway, laugh, and maybe even shed a tear as you create another beautiful memory with your father.


3. Father's Speech or Toast


Invite your dad to give a heartfelt speech or toast during the reception. This allows him to express his love, share anecdotes, and offer advise or well wishes for your future. Encourage him to reflect on your journey together and the joy he feels on this special day. This public acknowledgment will not only make your dad feel included but also touch the hearts of your guests (and might be the only time you hear such words!).


4. First Look with Your Father


Before the wedding ceremony, arrange a private "first look" moment with your father. Grab your photographer and ask them to capture the moments when your dad first sets his eyes on his beautiful daughter all dressed up for her big day. Just as many brides have a first look with their grooms, sharing this intimate time with your dad allows for an emotional connection and the chance to exchange heartfelt words.


5. Father-Officiated Ceremony


If your dad has a flair for public speaking or holds a position of authority within your religious or cultural traditions, consider asking him to officiate your wedding ceremony. This unique role allows your dad to not only be an integral part of your special day but also to lead and guide you through the sacred vows and rituals that unite you and your partner.


6. Father's Hand in the Details


Involve your dad in the wedding planning process by seeking his opinion and advice on various aspects. Whether it's selecting a venue, deciding on the menu (I know my dad would love his say on the menu!), or choosing the decor, your dad's input and presence will be invaluable. This collaboration will not only make him feel included but also deepen your bond as you work together to create a wedding that reflects your shared vision.


7. Honour his Heritage or Talents


If your dad has cultural or artistic talents, consider incorporating them into your wedding celebration. This could involve including elements from his heritage, such as traditional music, dance or attire. Alternatively, showcase his artistic skills by displaying his artwork, photographs or talents as part of the reception. I'm hoping for a free magician for mine! 😉


8. Father's Tribute


We are not all fortunate enough to have our dad around on our wedding day - some are not well enough and some have already left this life. Take the opportunity to honour your dad on this special occasion. Dedicate a portion of your wedding day to celebrating them, perhaps a slideshow of cherished photographs or a portion of your speech.



As you navigate the journey of planning your wedding, remember to include your dad in meaningful ways, allowing him to be part of this significant milestone. These gestures not only make your father feel cherished and appreciated but also create lasting memories that will be cherished by both of you.


Father's Day is a time to express appreciation and honour the fathers and father figures who have played pivotal roles in our lives. Whether it's through heartfelt conversations, shared experiences, thoughtful gifts, or acts of service (like a blog!), the key is to show love, gratitude and recognition for the remarkable individuals who have guided and supported us.


So as you embark on this new chapter, embrace the opportunity to celebrate your father's love, wisdom and presence, ensuring he feels honoured and cherished on your special day and beyond.


With that, I'll leave you with a lovely photo of Jono and his dearest (Left: Dad, Sister Emma, Jono, Mum)


Peace, Love and Photos


Rachel

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